I’m glad that you have finally decided to experience a Tantric massage. I can understand you are excited and a little bit nervous, which is quite natural. After all, you are about to experience a new and memorable experience that you may cherish for a long time.
So now it’s time to plan. First things first, do not choose a particular type of massage simply by reading a few blogs or watching videos on the Internet that may be designed to attract attention. Talk to your masseuse instead, as she can help guide you toward an experience that suits your preferences. Speak with her over the phone or share your questions and preferences over text.
Having said that, there are some key things you might want to know if you are going to experience a Tantric massage for the first time. These are some of the things your masseuses certainly wouldn’t want you to do. The following list contains some of the most common mistakes you would want to avoid during a Tantric massage session.
Erotic Massage is NOT a foreplay
I can understand that wanting to touch your beautiful masseuse is instinctive whilst she is performing the body-to-body massage on you. You will get the urge to touch her back. You are expected to let her do what she is supposed to do and it is certainly not a good idea to try to caress her during the session. It sounds difficult but let her do the role of spoiling you, your just have to enjoy every tiniest of the moments. Every massage experience can have different expectations and boundaries, so it is best to discuss the nature of the session with your masseuse at the time of booking.
Do not direct her what to do and what not
This is a big no! You are not supposed to tell her how she should proceed with the massage. While it is perfectly fine to tell her what you like or don’t like, please do not interrupt the session by constantly giving instructions. There is a clear difference between a conversation and a command. Besides, repeatedly giving instructions can come across as a lack of respect toward your masseuse. An experienced masseuse knows how to guide the session, while open communication can help make the experience comfortable and respectful. Trust and mutual respect can make your experience more enjoyable.
Don’t Ask for Food or Drink
This is best avoided during the session. You are not at a movie theater, and the same consideration applies even if she is at your place. Instead, prepare for the massage session by creating a calm and comfortable environment where you and your masseuse can focus on the experience.
Avoid Strong Perfumes
Take a shower before your massage. Do not apply strong perfumes. Your masseuse may use essential oils with natural fragrances, so it is best to maintain good personal hygiene while avoiding strong perfumes immediately before the massage session.
Be Gentle and Polite
You are a one-of-a-kind, loving and caring gentleman. Therefore, it is important to remain respectful and considerate throughout the session. Your masseuse is a highly skilled and experienced professional who is there to provide the type of massage you have requested. Don’t say anything offensive or rude, and do not assume that she must do something “different” for you. You may offer your feedback afterward, and she will appreciate it. Above all, remain polite and respectful throughout the experience. Mutual respect should define the experience.
Final words
Seeking a memorable massage experience starts with choosing a professional masseuse and approaching the session with respect. Therefore, you should do your part by behaving politely, respecting personal boundaries, and following the agreed expectations of the session.
Hope you will have a relaxing and comfortable experience during the Tantric massage session with Helene. You can email her at hchalont@gmail.com.
